Water, silicone or oil. Which lube fits?

A water-based lube is a practical place to start if you’re using barriers or toys. It typically rinses off easily and may need topping up as it dries. Check the label and the accessory’s instructions for the particular combination you plan to use.

Silicone-based lubes tend to stay slippery longer and can take more effort to wash off. If you’re using a silicone toy, check its care guide first. Some makers advise against combining silicone toys with silicone-based lube because it can affect the surface.

Oil-based lube can feel richer and leave a more noticeable coating on skin. It can also mark fabric. Keep oil away from latex condoms, latex dental dams and polyisoprene condoms. The Original Coconut Lube is for external use only.

Start with what you need the lube to work with. Once you know which bases the barrier or toy maker allows, you can choose by the feel you like and how much clean-up you want. For more on the differences, see NSW Health’s guide to lube.